Aurelie wrote:Kelmia wrote:Yea. I am looking at the other pally tank in my new guild on Wyrmrest Accord and he's stacked up parry gems like everywhere. Like two stam gems and one hit gem. I'd rather go with straight up stam and a agi/stam gem for my meta.
He's foolish. Gemming for parry is something that is almost never justifiable, similar to hit... Gmming for threat stats in a set other than your trash/threat gear is just not smart. At this point, as long as you're in ICC gear, you should really be stacking straight stam with an agi/stam gem to fulfill the meta requirement.
I personally prefer avoidance tanking. My healers prefer it - and I've noticed that it does make a very large difference in survivability in ICC (10 and 25). I rarely die before a wipe is called

Before you ask - yes I am using a couple of defense gems. DR's right now are high enough that it's pretty effective

And these days, if you're not producing enough threat in your main set of tank gear, you might have a problem, as there really isn't a big difference between main tanking and offtanking.
So yes, you can call me foolish all you like, whether or not the previous poster was referring to me (The name doesn't seem familiar <.< ) But it boils down to the facts:
I have enough health to take a few hits.
I have enough avoidance to negate half the potential damage a boss does.
And I produce more threat than anyone else I know, despite the lack of threat gemming. (mostly because I get ridiculous amounts of hit from my gear, but that's not the point I'm trying to make.)
There's another paladin tank in my guild who stacks straight stam (with a meta activator) who's squishy as hell and dies when a boss looks at him funny. I have ~10% more avoidance than him, despite having a bit less health. *shrug* You tell me what's more effective - a tank who dies or a tank who doesn't.